Like it but I wish it was non-harem

I understand that these are fantasy stories, but I realize that it also seems to be a fantasy for a man with such power to be faithful to one good woman. These stories make it seem like the women are okay with it, yet within the stories, it is still portrayed that a man with multiple women has a war within the harem. True fantasy.

Personally, once a harem shows up in the story, I stop reading it. I also deliberately avoid those that are tagged with harems. Just my thoughts, and not expecting anyone to agree. However, it would be nice to have a few non-harem stories in this genre.