C121 The Balance of Family Relationships Was a Part of One's Homework

"I have to say, over the past year, I take care of my children at home every day, and no one speaks. No one is giving me advice, no one cares about me. I want to tell him that he only knows how to sleep when he comes back. When her mother came back to complain to him, he told her about me. . . He won't listen to my explanation and just let his mother go. . . You know what? I always felt that ugly things shouldn't be exposed to the public, so. . . I held it in, I didn't say anything. . . Let others think that our family is harmonious, that's good. I just want to know, a man. . . I don't know what else can I do to protect my wife? " Miao Miao's mother turned her head. She glared at Miao Miao's father and roared.

The many wards that were originally closed windows quietly opened the windows again. I looked at them one by one and found that there were people standing behind many windows. Humans' curiosity was the same as our Dog's. I think that they should also want to know why Miao Miao was still in the resuscitation room, and why her father and mother were arguing outside.

"I'm not not not protecting you. I just feel that. . . She is an old man, and she worked so hard to take care of your child. Serve you for a month, bear with it for a bit. She's also working very hard. " When Miao Miao's father spoke, I felt that his confidence was very lacking. He looks very guilty and does not dare to look at Miao Miao's mother. It was as if he had done something wrong.

I smelled a strong scent of smoke. I turned around and saw Huo Li walking over after extinguishing her cigarette.

"Brother, I want to say a few words to you as a man. " Huo Li sat beside Susu. He rubbed my head, then. . . He said to Miao Miao's father, "Your heart aches for your mother. She is a mother. She is taking care of your wife and child, serving the child. She should be grateful and understand her. Thank you, indeed. It's not easy for an old man. "

I saw Miao Miao's mother raise her head and frown. She seemed to want to argue with Huo Li, but I turned around and saw Huo Li smiling at her.

"Yeah, I think so too!" Miao Miao's father immediately spoke. He felt that Huo Li might be helping him.

However, I don't think so. I think Huo Li is also a petty person. He wouldn't hurt Miao Miao's mother at a time like this.

He is a person who loves girls and is a good person.

"But Mr. Hu, did you forget one thing?" Huo Li looked at Miao Miao's father and said.

"Ah?" Miao Miao's father was surprised.

I was also surprised. I thought about it. Miao Miao's father did not seem to forget anything other than hitting Miao Miao and causing her to jump into the sea.

"You forgot that this is also a mother. She is the mother of your two children. Furthermore. . . And those two were brought to her by you. It's because of the love between you and your children that they have children. So, shouldn't you understand her as well? Think about it more. Is it also hard on her?" Huo Li finished speaking. He looked at Miao Miao's father.

I saw that the police were nodding, and Xi Le gave a thumbs up. Teacher Qin Feng also smiled and nodded. I looked up at Susu. As expected, Susu smiled and looked at Huo Li. I understood what she meant. She was praising Huo Li.

"I. . . " Miao Miao's father clearly did not expect Huo Li to say this. He was stunned and his mouth moved. Finally, he lowered his head and did not say anything.

"Wuwuwu, is it easy for me? Ever since my son was born, he has not left me for a day. He has to hug and coax me even when he eats and sleeps. On the contrary, when he comes back all day long, he only eats and sleeps. He's even biased towards his mother. " Miao Miao's mother cried even louder. This almost scared me.

I propped up my body and pricked up my ears. When I looked at her, I was a little curious. Huo Li clearly helped her, but she acted like Huo Li bullied her and cried even more sadly.

I looked at Huo Li. Huo Li helplessly pulled me up from under the stool and carried me into his arms. I had no choice but to jump onto the stool and lie half of my body in his arms. I know that he needs comfort, and I can give him a hug and a peace.

"Your problem is that ever since you got pregnant, you only have your son in your eyes, and your daughter has been hurt by your cold violence. " Susu waited until Miao Miao's mother stopped crying so sadly before she looked at Miao Miao's mother and said.

"I don't have time to split myself!" Miao Miao's mother said.

"My daughter is also your child. She doesn't care how old she is. Just like you. . . After being married to your husband for so many years, you still want him to be biased towards you. Or do you want him to love you more, the first ten years of his daughter's life. . . My parents have devoted all their love to her, and now. . . When her brother came, she suddenly realized. . . Her parents and even her grandmother had given their love to her brother. . . It was too biased, which was why her heart fell apart. And you, from the moment you were about to get pregnant. . . I don't think I had a proper conversation with my daughter. . . Tell her that she will have a little brother. . . You want your little brother to be with her, and you also think that she is a big girl. I want to be with you to protect this new family, I think. . . Girls are naturally more passionate, just like how they like dolls. She will accept a new family, and she will also take care of them. This is on the premise that you. . . To her and to her brother. . . It's the same, you love her too. . . Tell her that you love her! " Susu spoke to Miao Miao's mother.

As she spoke, I saw Miao Miao's mother, who was originally lowering her head, slowly raise her head. The two police officers also lowered their heads.

I proudly turned around and sat up straight, because I realized that many people were peeking and eavesdropping. I want everyone to know that I am Susu's dog. When they praise Susu, don't forget me.

"We love her. She's our daughter, of course we love her. But. . . After all, she's older, so we don't think too much. " Miao Miao's mother said again.

"She didn't feel it, but your love, Miao Miao's mother said. It's tilted. From the conversation between you two, I can feel it. " A police officer opened his mouth and looked at the two of them. He said, "This rescue team's Captain Huo is single, and the police dog training base's Captain Yuan is also single. Other than Professor Qin Feng, the members of the rescue team are all single. However, they all saw it clearly. Your husband and wife's attitude towards your daughter. . . It is biased, and you. . . The arrival of the second child wasn't handled properly at all. "

"Yeah, I didn't manage to deal with it properly. " Miao Miao's father nodded. He sighed and said, "In today's society, The cost of raising a child is too high. Living and studying are almost the biggest expenses for a middle-class family. Not to mention, there were also additional tuition classes and interesting classes. There are also other things that happen occasionally. "

"Yes, the cost of medical treatment is high. This is a phenomenon in the entire society. Right now, the national policy has improved a lot. There is a birth insurance for children, and there is also a medical insurance for illnesses. However, the education of children is really a huge expense. " The other middle-aged police officer seemed to have a deep understanding of the situation and nodded in agreement.

"So, before you gave birth to the second child, did you make all these plans? Or rather, you blindly followed the trend. Everyone in the office gave birth to their second child. I want to give birth too. He has a second child, so I have to have one too?" Su Su asked.

"Isn't this because his mother always wanted a son? She said that the villagers would make their children pair. " When Miao Miao's mother said this, she turned around and glared at her husband. She scolded, "The children I give birth to all follow the surname of your Hu family. I've suffered so much. Have you ever thought about it? Have you thought about it? "

"I understand. I have thought about it too. I know you have suffered. But. . . "The man held his head and did not say anything.

They went back to the stage of their discussion. I seem to remember that when they first came to the pavilion, they were talking about who gave birth to the child. Now, they were still blaming each other.

I can feel Miao Miao's father's frustration, helplessness, and exhaustion.

"What about men? It's really hard to balance the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. But no matter what, you have to balance it well. You have to love both sides so that they will love each other. " Teacher Qin Feng said.

"Teacher Qin Feng has always lived with his mother-in-law and the others, and is also a good family. Why don't you study and study?" Miao Miao's mother immediately blamed her father.

"Teacher Qin Feng is a cultured and reasonable person. Furthermore, his father-in-law's family is all teachers, and they respect each other. Have you heard of any conflicts in their family?" Miao Miao's father looked up at his daughter-in-law and said.

"That's not what I meant. Actually. . . We've had our differences regarding the education of our children. Our education of our daughters, as well as our different views on husband and wife. . . We've all had disputes, but. . . First of all, what we need to do is. . . There are many things between husband and wife that can be solved by themselves. . . Then, don't put it in front of the old man. Because, father-in-law and mother-in-law are the parents of the woman. No matter what their identity is, they will definitely feel sorry for their child first. My mother-in-law and mother-in-law will also prioritize their first impression and then look at the problem later. Once my parents encounter a problem between us husband and wife, they will also be biased towards me. This is human nature, animals and humans. . . They all have a protective behavior towards their calves. " Teacher Qin Feng said.

"I agree with Teacher Qin Feng's point of view. " Huo Li and Susu both nodded, agreeing with Teacher Qin Feng. I also nodded like them. I saw Teacher Qin Feng look at me, he smiled at me, and I also smiled at him.

"When parents participate in a husband and wife dispute between their children, the results are often counterproductive. So, no matter what happens in the future. . . First, you solve it yourself. Secondly, don't do it in front of the old man. Also, don't do it in front of the children. This would make the child feel a sense of crisis, as if his parents didn't love him anymore. They will panic, causing their minds to distort. " Teacher Qin Feng said again.

"Yes, I will remember that, Teacher Qin Feng. " Miao Miao's father nodded and listened to Teacher Qin Feng very seriously.

"Next, on the second child. You still have to say this. The child is yours. You gave birth before you were ready. Since the child has already been born. . . Whether it is bitterness or exhaustion, you have to bear it and try to solve the current predicament. Instead of criticizing and blaming each other. This will make the child feel uncomfortable. They would have a deviation in their hearts, thinking that their parents disliked their children. The parents are too tired, it was them who caused it. . . So, with a look in the parents' eyes, A single action would cause them to collapse " Teacher Qin Feng continued to educate this couple.

I sat by the side and listened a lot. Even though I'm actually quite tired today. . . However, when Teacher Qin Feng spoke, not only did his voice sound nice, his words also made sense. More importantly, as a dog, I actually understood everything.

"Balance the relationship between the wife and mother, balance the love between the son and daughter. Before the son is too sensible, we can give the daughter more love and let her transfer this love to the younger brother. I think this will be a better choice. " Teacher Qin Feng continued.

"I understand. Thank you, Teacher Qin Feng. Today, These words have really benefited me a lot. I will definitely work hard and change my current situation according to your guidance. I will definitely work hard to give my wife and children a better living environment and atmosphere. " Miao Miao's father said.

"Susu!"

I heard Jiang Huai's voice. He was wearing a white coat, and when he walked over, there was a chemical smell on his body, along with a faint smell of soap.

"How's Demi?" Susu stood up and immediately asked.

"Doctor, how is the child?" Miao Miao's father and mother stood up together and asked.

"The child needs to be hospitalized for a few days for light inhalation of pharyngitis. Currently, pharyngitis is easy to treat. You still need to pay more attention to the child's psychological problems. If it is necessary, ask a psychiatrist to intervene. " Jiang Huai said to Miao Miao's parents.

"Teacher Qin Feng, can we ask for your help? The child actually listens to your words very much. She admires you very much. We often praise you and your daughter in front of her. Your daughter is really too outstanding. " Miao Miao's mother immediately went forward and bowed to Teacher Qin Feng.

"Actually, I feel that Susu might be more suitable to guide the child. " Teacher Qin Feng looked at Susu and said with a smile, "It was Susu who brought the child out from under the bridge. I think the child trusts her more, but Susu is very busy. She will be going back to the base tomorrow. "

"Then. . . Captain Yuan. Can we. . . Can we ask you to help persuade the child? I know, this is very troublesome. . . But. . . We really don't know what to do. " Miao Miao's father quickly pleaded with Susu.

"I'm not a psychologist. Maybe I just feel that a child, just like a trained rescue dog, needs to be touched with love, needs patience and care. As for other things, I can't say much. " Susu said.

"Susu is right. Actually. . . Children and dogs are the same. They are both ignorant and insensible. Grow up slowly. Look at how beautiful you are. You can understand any human language, and. . . 100% obeying orders, sensible. . . Once he entered his working state, his comprehension ability would not be any weaker than a human's. Su Su is able to make Miao Miao lower her guard and follow her out from the bottom of the bridge. I think. . . More importantly, the reason is because of Su Su's patience. And her love has made the child deeply understand it. " Teacher Qin Feng said.