C148 This Kind of Damage

"Yes, or you'll change. Otherwise, you'll have to learn to endure the distance between you and Shaoze. These were all necessary. You can't love Shaoze too much. Love him too much was actually a burden to him. He will always have a family, a wife, and a child. He could not always place you first in his heart. It wasn't fair to his wife. It's not fair to his future children either