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I'm fifteen years older.

His values, views on life and love are basically the Australian model.

"I like you, I want to confess my love to you and pursue you!"

One day, when my wife, Griffin, went to bed early with the baby, he stuck me in the kitchen while I was cleaning the cabinets and cleaning the floor, my hands full of detergent foam.

His tone was urgent and impatient, as if he was a wolf that only wanted to eat people!

"You …" I was at a loss for words. The duster fell to the ground, and I knocked over the broom behind me as well …

I stopped what I was doing, stiff and slow, feeling like a lamb waiting to be slaughtered!

"… …"

"Don't you like me?" He was panting as if he had run a kilometer.

I looked at the man so close to me, this plain but intelligent scholar, this simple and proud man of intellect --

I do like him, if you ask yourself.

As an IT guy, he was carefree and had a poor ability to live. But his IQ was high, his logic was clear, his thoughts were swift, his reactions were swift, he was used to controlling the initiative of a conversation, and the style of a conversation seemed strong and rational. At the same time, he had the tolerance and consideration of a mature man, which was extremely attractive to a young girl.

We liked to be close, we liked each other so much, and as we got to know each other, we could almost read each other with our eyes and enter an extraordinary state of empathy.

The empathy, also known as god, empathy, empathy and so on. a concept developed by the founder of humanism, Rogers. Common feelings usually refer to a positive sensory ability that occurs when people interact with each other, that is, the ability to express an understanding of another person in communication with another person.

Many scholars have a good idea of this. According to Mayeroff (1971), empathy is "caring for a man, must be able to understand him and his world as if I were him, must be able to examine and observe him from the outside as if he were seeing his world and himself, must be able to be with him in his world, to enter his world, to perceive his way of life and his goals and directions from within.

If the empathy used in modern psychoanalysis is to urge psychoanalysts to put themselves in other people's shoes and to consider things from other people's point of view, the empathy that occurs between me and Vo Cannon is a kind of natural god, a natural thing:

We do not need to use this theory, this theory, to strain ourselves into the inner world of others, to peer into the inner world of others, as psychiatrists do.

To both of us, it was as though we were facing a transparent glass. The other party's emotions, emotions and emotions were all within our sight, as though they were all within our hearts …

We can enter each other's mind and experience each other's fear, anger, gentleness, bewilderment, or any emotion that we are experiencing …

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Perhaps, I belong to the same category as Vernon:

We are reserved, low-key, cautious, and less talkative.

We think highly of ourselves, standing alone in the clouds, alone, disdainful of mediocrity …

— Because we are all members of the Mensa Club, members of a different group with an IQ of 130 and above.

IQ, or quotient of intelligence, was invented by Benay the Frenchman and included observation, memory, imagination, analytical judgment, thinking, adaptability, etc. is the ability of people to understand objective things and use knowledge to solve practical problems. Intelligence is usually expressed as an intellectual quotient, which is used to indicate the level of intellectual development.

The average IQ of a normal person is 100. According to this test, the average IQ of a normal person is between 85 and 115. The internationally accepted approach is to set the average intelligence quotient (IQ) of people with an IQ above average of about 130. According to this classification, most people in the world have an IQ of 90-110, 25% have an IQ below this level, about 5% have an IQ of 125, about 2% have an IQ of 130, and of 100 thousand people, only about one person has an IQ of 160...

The famous Mensa Club was the so-called "Clever People's Club" with an IQ of 130 and above. It was a non-political and non-territorial, globalized, pure intellectual exchange society that eliminated racial and religious differences. The purpose of the Mensa Club was to link brilliant people with brilliant people. Any member who could join this club would have to undergo an intelligence test. In general, only two people out of a hundred have this privilege.

I was a newcomer to Australia who had just passed his intelligence quiz and was admitted to the club, and Wo Kannon, who had entered the club of the Wise in more than 40 countries with over a hundred thousand people in the world when he first entered university!

Entering the club, they learned that the members of the Mensa Club had a wide range of ages. Some were prodigies who had entered the club at the age of two, and some were elderly people in their nineties. Most of the members were between the ages of 20 and 49. There were also a wide range of academic qualifications, including preschool children, vagabonds who had dropped out of school early on, scholars who had received multiple doctorates, poor citizens who had lived on welfare benefits, millions and millions of rich people, and big business owners. Profession is also widely distributed: professors, truck drivers, scientists, firefighters, computer programmers, farmers, artists, soldiers, musicians, workers, police officers … There was only one entry threshold for an organization labeled "Equality" — your IQ must be high enough to enter the top 2% of humanity. Also, for anyone interested in joining the club, there can only be one IQ test for Mensa. Listening to my classmates, China already has a branch of the Mensa Club, and has more than 100 members, members of age, most of them in the post-1980s generation.

Cannon participated in many Mensa member events. It's easy and fun to talk and talk with members, he said.

So far, he told me, there were more than 30 organizations with high IQ worldwide. Of these organizations, Mensa, with more than 100 thousand members, is just the lowest threshold and the largest number of members. According to the standard deviation of 15, Mensa's IQ standard was 130, while that of the other four clubs or associations was 135, that of the Tribune Society, the Genius Poet's Club was 139, that of the Infinite International Society, the Latin IQ International was 140, that of the High IQ Club was 145, that of the Prometheus Club, that of the Prophet's Society was 160, that of the Olympic Intelligence Club was 175, and that of the Holy Grail Society, which had the highest threshold of intelligence, was 200 and above. There are currently only seven members of the organization worldwide …

…

Cannon's eyes were bloodshot and rimmed with dark circles. It could be seen that in these past two days, he was the same as me; he didn't have a good rest!

I looked at him, frank and direct:

"I like you a lot too! But what did you do with Griffin? She just gave birth to a beautiful girl for you. "

My words were like a sharp nail piercing through a balloon, and he immediately lost his will to fight.

"You little girl, why are you so sharp?" he said dejectedly.