C20
one
Griffin was an only child and a 'princess' in the eyes of his parents. However, she had a higher EQ than most people.
Thinking about it now, her calmness in handling of the family crisis is indeed admirable …
If Griffin had argued with him, and they had broken up, Cannon would have chosen me at all costs. Because to him, in his world, as long as it was something he was certain of, he wouldn't care about the rules and regulations of the ordinary world at all. However, Griffin was as gentle as water, avoiding the sharp edge and putting himself in other people's shoes. Her tolerance and patience, her weakness and low-key, hit the softest place in the whole of Vernon …
EQ is an acquired ability.
A person with high EQ can accurately recognize and evaluate the emotional emotions of himself and others, and can find out the reason. According to the present situation, he can adjust, guide, control and improve the emotions of himself and others, so that they can gradually get rid of the intense anxiety and depression, respond to the crisis actively, and do well self-monitoring, self-management, self-management, self-guidance and self-restraint of consciousness. For example, she could clearly recognize what could and couldn't be done, what should and shouldn't be done, what could and would be done … Putting myself in the situation and considering the feelings of Voodoo Cannon and myself, gradually calming down this storm of emotions …
two
After a month, Voodoo Cannon's body recovered quite well. Although he couldn't make any big movements, his leg, which was fixed in mid-air, was finally released. Griffin bathed him every day, changed his clothes, and changed his diapers. I cooked and cooked for him every day and chatted with him.
We talked about everything. They talked about the affairs of the country, about the strange happenings in school, about the interesting events among the foreign students …
Once, he even talked about how he became a vegetarian.
"As for me, it's all thanks to mom. My father was an only child, and I was also the only son of the family. When I was young, my grandparents spoiled me too much, and raised me to be as fat as a pig. His grandfather was born in a big family, so he was rich. How rich was he? Let me tell you this: there are college students left in their homes. Why did Liu Yang's students come to my house to work as servants? Because the salary is so high, even the servants of my grandfather's house have to take the exam.
Because he was rich, his grandfather's family knew how to eat and was very particular about eating. He had eaten almost all of the famous Chinese food. After the liberation, when no servant did it, my grandparents learned to cook the delicious dishes that they had printed in their heads, and they did the trick, such as cooking meat on the east slope, stewing bass with a lion's head in Yangzhou, and cooking bass. It was a piece of cake for them. Then my parents gave birth to me and brought me to Australia. My grandparents followed, worried about my safety. The old lady cooked delicious food for me every day. I ate like a balloon and couldn't walk anymore. Thank goodness my grandparents went back to the mainland, otherwise how could I have lost weight?
After high school, I made up my mind to lose weight, but then I lost weight and rebounded, several times in a row, which almost made me lose my confidence. " "No," he said.
"Later I heard that vegetarian diet can lose weight, so I forced me to eat vegetarian diet. He wasn't used to it at first, but it felt like losing his soul after not eating meat for a day. Fortunately, my mom was determined. No matter how much trouble I caused, it didn't change. After more than half a year of adapting, I finally became a vegetarian. For me. My parents have also become vegetarian. Tell me, can I cause any more trouble? " "No," he said.
"And so I slowly lost weight. "1.7 meters. From the past 200 jins, I've seen 150 jins, and I've lost 50 to 60 jins!"
Triple
The mood of Cannon has become calmer. Every day, he sleeps soundly. He would always hold my hand and fall asleep …
Every day, after he had fallen asleep, I would gently pry open his big hands, slip out of the hospital, and ask Griffin to come over for the night.
One day, I delivered fragrant rice to Vogel, along with a few new dishes:
Celery cashew lily, pepper and salt eggplant box, steaming white jade buddhist hand.
His eyes stared straight ahead.
"Xiaoli, your dishes are getting better and better. "Quick, bring it to me, my saliva is going to fall!" He continued to eat, his eyes shining with satisfaction.
Eating was really an important matter. As long as he ate, he would be in a good mood. Eating happily, the efficiency of a day's work is high. Now, serving this disabled patient, I have found the entry point:
Change the pattern, cook him fresh, rarely eaten dishes, and inspire his love and yearning for life.
"This Steam Jade Buddha Palm even has a perverted fragrance. Good!" He ate the three Jade Buddha Hands in three bites.
"Quick, tell me, how did you make this Jade Buddha Hand?" he asked.
"It's not hard, it's just that the process is a little complicated. "Look, I've been thinking too much about cooking!" I praised myself.
"Of course. It takes some effort to cook for me." He said proudly.
Thus, I introduced in detail the process of cooking the white jade buddhist hand.
"The seasonings are the common tofu, cabbage, water chestnut, mushrooms, carrots, and celery dishes used in domestic dishes. First, I washed and scalded the cabbage, first soft the mushrooms with water, then cut the carrots and water chestnuts into fine powder, then I mixed the tofu into mud, added in the fine powder of the mushrooms, carrots and water chestnuts, mixed them with salt and pepper, and divided them into three parts. Finally, I wrapped these stuffing in scalded cabbage leaves into three parts, put them on a plate, pour the oil on the fire, steam for about thirty minutes, then sprinkle some celery filaments on top and it becomes … " "No," I said.
"Xiaoli is becoming more and more capable!" he praised. Her slender eyes narrowed into a line …
When I approached him to get the finished bowl and chopsticks, he suddenly kissed me and hugged me, not letting me leave.
My face is very hot, and probably very red …
I'm really useless! It was only then that Geoffen, with his reason to smooth over my emotions, gave me a kiss in Conunna and set off another great wave. My body also started to heat up and tremble slightly, as if a wave was passing through my body …
At this point, the whole world seemed to have disappeared into the distance. "Only our scalding bodies pressed together, and an indescribable, inexplicable desire slowly rose within us …
His chest was so powerful that he could clearly hear the violent thumping of his heart.
"I want to be with you …" He almost muttered to himself.
My head starts to spin, Chaos card, blank...
"… …"
Griffin always warned us not to go too far at a critical moment.
But the phone rang and he ignored it, still holding on to me. On the fifth ring, I turned my head to look at my cell phone and saw on the screen that it was Griffin.
My body suddenly shot up …
"Hurry and answer the phone, Madame is calling." "No," I said.
"… …"
