C198 I Understand
Grandma said she hated him. She hated him for dragging her in front of her and telling her to bear with it.
In the past, she had wanted to endure it. He had a bad temper, so it was fine for her to endure it. Everyone had a bad temper.
However, not trusting people wasn't part of the bad temper. This was a matter of principle. She couldn't tolerate it, nor did she want to