C1542 Who Made That Rule?
You can't treat him differently just because he's your wife.
Xiao Jingye was a person who talked back to the heavens and scolded the earth, but he didn't scold his wife. Half of it was because he was reluctant to part with her, and the other half was because he didn't dare. Of course, the latter was more likely to be more important.
In his words, a wife was meant to be loved. Otherwise