C30 I Want to Make One Last Effort

"He has only a faint smell of smoke. Today, I was very close to him in the book bar, so I could smell nothing else from him. "

"Yes, the smell of smoke and alcohol mixed with the smell of a woman's perfume. It stinks and is extremely disgusting. "

"That's your fantasy."

"I know. I went to the hospital for an examination, except for my allergic rhinitis. It was all my imagination. "

"Why, you're not fair to him. It will do him a great deal of harm. "

"In the beginning, it was him who drank too much. When he went home and threw his coat on the bed, I could smell all kinds of smells mixed together, especially the inferior fragrance of women's perfume. If I could smell it, I would know that they were having drinks with the young lady at the party, and although I knew he wouldn't really do anything, I was sick of this, and my man couldn't stand to be held by another woman. I come back twenty-five days a month with this smell, and I hate it when the days go by, so naturally he takes a bath, and I think it smells of bad perfume. The smell was extremely strong, giving him a headache. I've seen a psychiatrist and talked about it. The doctor told me not to dream about it, but I really couldn't help it, I could smell it the moment I got close, and I thought I'd gotten over it. He hugged me, and I thought I wouldn't smell it, but I threw up. "

"It's a reflex, Baprov's dog, you know. You already started to worry about coming home late, but when he came home and got drunk with the smell of alcohol and tobacco, your worry turned into anger. As time went by, when he came home late, you knew that if he went to a social event, there would be women accompanying him, and you hated him for going to a social event, so you hated the smell on his body. Actually, what you hate is the fact that he was too close to a woman when they were having fun. And because he comes home late and late, you get angrier and angrier and more disgusted, and even if the smell isn't on him, you get angrier and angrier when you see him, because he's late and because he's at a party again, so you smell it again. A vicious circle. "

Soong Zihee nodded. Bian Ann's analysis was very reasonable.

"Don't you want him to touch you because you hate the smell of him?"

Soong Zihee frowned. He still did not answer this question.

Bian Ann sighed in his heart. Soong Zihee refused to communicate whenever they met with a core issue.

No wonder Old Qi said that all the psychiatrists in the city didn't get a single bit of change. Soong Zihee seemed to be actively cooperating with psychotherapy, but the most important thing was that he had been avoiding it.

I really can't rush it.

But did they ignore a very important question?

"Zihee, look at the situation now. Whether it's repelling his touch or the smell on his body, the root cause lies in Mr. Li himself. But now that you're divorced and not living together, do you even need to see a therapist? The reason that affects you is no longer, your symptoms will naturally disappear. You don't have to do anything about cleanliness, do you? "

Soong Zihee shook his head. He hesitated for a long time.

"I want to make one last effort to get rid of my illness."

Try again for the last time, try to do it. If it doesn't work, it's still the same, and there's nothing I can do about it. Accept reality.

"You can take your time. For example, when we met in the day, he didn't go to the social gathering, right? Naturally, he wouldn't have that strange smell on his body. You can get a little closer by hinting in your heart. You can try touching his fingers, and touch his fingers, and it will be fine. You can touch his face, his body, you see, it will all develop in a good direction, you have to be patient, and don't be discouraged. "

"Alright."

Soong Zihee revealed a naughty smile when he heard Bian Ann's words. Like a child planning something bad.

Bian Ann saw his expression, so he spoke out his thoughts.

"Zihee, if you want to solve the problem, you have to find the root cause of the problem. Repeated evasion is not the way. If the wound was covered and left unattended, it would fester and worse. If you can't say it yourself, you can use another way, like hypnosis. "

"I don't accept it."

Soong Zihee's smile disappeared and he stood up straight.

"Alright, I won't hypnotize you. Relax. We take a step-by-step approach. "

Bian Ann drew back his body so that Soong Zihee wouldn't feel pressured. Soong Zihee slowly felt safe, so he put away the blown up Mao Wei.

"Can I come three times a week?"

"Sure, give me a call before you come. I'll prepare some hot tea for you."

Soong Zihee stood up.

"My auntie has finished cooking dinner. I'll go back first." We'll talk next time. "

"It's a pity I can't treat you to the food I made."

Soong Zihee smiled and left with light footsteps. Bian Ann was a little better than the psychiatrists he had seen before, and he talked to him in a relaxed manner, hoping that this time the psychiatrists would be able to help.